How are you? and goodbye (كيف حالك، مع السلامة)

How are you?

After the greeting comes the question كيف حالك(kayfa hâluka) — how are you? (literally how is your state?). The standard answer is بخير(bikhayrin), fine or well, very often followed by الحمد لله(al-hamdu lillâh), praise be to God. Arabic speakers of every background use الحمد لله this way, the way English speakers say thank God or simply thanks.

If things are only so-so, say لا بأس(lâ ba's) — not bad, it's all right.

Meeting someone

When you are introduced, say تشرفنا(tasharrafnâ) — pleased to meet you (literally we are honoured). The form is the same whoever says it and to whomever it is said.

Saying goodbye

formulawhen
مع السلامةthe everyday goodbye (literally with safety)
إلى اللقاءsee you — you expect to meet again
وداعاfarewell — a longer or final parting
تصبح على خيرgood night, said when someone goes to sleep

Like good night in English, تصبح على خير(tusbih 'alâ khayrin) is only a leave-taking, never a greeting. It is addressed to a man; to a woman it becomes تصبحين على خير.

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