Because English and Dutch are close cousins, thousands of words line up neatly — huis/house, water/water, boek/book. That family resemblance is mostly a gift, but it sets a trap: a handful of Dutch words look exactly like an English word yet mean something completely different. These are false friends (Dutch: valse vrienden). The danger is that you'll never feel unsure — the word looks familiar, so you reach for the English meaning with full confidence and say something subtly (or hilariously) wrong. This page collects the worst offenders. For each one, learn the real Dutch meaning and the correct word for the English sense you were reaching for.
The high-frequency traps
These come up in everyday conversation, so getting them wrong is common and noticeable.
eventueel ≠ eventually
Eventueel means possibly, potentially, if need be — it expresses a possibility, with zero sense of time. English eventually is about time ("in the end"). For eventually, use uiteindelijk.
We kunnen eventueel later afspreken als dat beter uitkomt.
We could possibly meet later if that suits better. ('eventueel' = possibly, not eventually)
Na drie jaar sparen konden we uiteindelijk een huis kopen.
After three years of saving, we could eventually buy a house. (eventually = uiteindelijk)
actueel ≠ actual
Actueel means current, topical, up-to-date. For actual (= real, factual), use werkelijk or echt; for actually, use eigenlijk.
Dit is het meest actuele nieuws over de staking.
This is the most current news about the strike. ('actueel' = current/topical)
Het klinkt gek, maar eigenlijk wist ik het antwoord al.
It sounds odd, but I actually already knew the answer. (actually = eigenlijk)
raar ≠ rare
Raar means strange, weird, odd. It has nothing to do with scarcity. For rare (= uncommon), use zeldzaam; for rare meat, use rood or rosé.
Doe niet zo raar, iedereen kan je horen.
Don't be so weird, everyone can hear you. ('raar' = strange)
Een witte neushoorn is een zeldzaam dier.
A white rhino is a rare animal. (rare = zeldzaam)
slim ≠ slim
Slim means clever, smart, intelligent. It says nothing about body shape. For slim (= slender), use slank.
Dat was een slimme oplossing — daar had ik niet aan gedacht.
That was a clever solution — I hadn't thought of that. ('slim' = clever)
Ze is lang en slank.
She's tall and slim. (slim = slank)
The "character" false friends
These describe people, and getting them wrong can be embarrassing because you misjudge someone out loud.
brave / braaf ≠ brave
This is one of the cruellest traps. Braaf (and the form brave) means well-behaved, obedient, good — the word you'd use for an obedient child or a dog that sits on command. It is almost the opposite of impressive. For English brave (= courageous), use dapper or moedig.
Wat een brave hond, hij blijft netjes zitten.
What a well-behaved dog, he stays sitting nicely. ('braaf' = obedient, NOT brave)
De brandweerlieden waren ontzettend dapper.
The firefighters were incredibly brave. (brave = dapper)
sympathiek ≠ sympathetic
Sympathiek means likeable, nice, congenial — it describes someone you warm to. For sympathetic (= showing compassion), use meelevend or begripvol; "to sympathize with" is meeleven met.
Onze nieuwe buurman is heel sympathiek.
Our new neighbour is very likeable. ('sympathiek' = likeable, not sympathetic)
De dokter was heel meelevend toen ze het slechte nieuws bracht.
The doctor was very sympathetic when she gave the bad news. (sympathetic = meelevend)
kind ≠ kind
Kind (pronounced "kint") is a noun meaning child. It is never the adjective "kind." For English kind (= friendly, nice), use aardig or vriendelijk.
Hun jongste kind gaat dit jaar naar de basisschool.
Their youngest child starts primary school this year. ('kind' = child)
Wat aardig van je om te helpen.
How kind of you to help. (kind = aardig)
The "everyday objects and actions" traps
bellen ≠ to bellow
Bellen means to phone, to ring (a doorbell). For bellow (= shout), use brullen or schreeuwen.
Ik bel je morgen even over de planning.
I'll give you a call tomorrow about the schedule. ('bellen' = to phone)
huren ≠ to hire (a person)
Huren means to rent (a flat, a car, a bike). For hiring/renting out, the verb flips to verhuren. To hire a person, use inhuren (a contractor) or aannemen (an employee).
We huren deze zomer een vakantiehuis in Zeeland.
We're renting a holiday house in Zeeland this summer. ('huren' = to rent)
De gemeente heeft een extern bureau ingehuurd.
The municipality hired an external agency. (to hire = inhuren)
A few more to recognise
| Dutch word | Actually means | NOT (English look-alike) | For that English sense, use |
|---|---|---|---|
| fabriek | factory | fabric | stof (fabric) |
| mug | mosquito | mug (cup) | mok / beker |
| stout | naughty | stout (sturdy) | stevig / fors |
| monster | monster and sample | — | (context decides) |
| wil | will / want | will (future) | future = zullen |
| arm | arm and poor | — | (context decides) |
Common Mistakes
❌ We gaan eventueel naar huis.
Wrong if you mean 'eventually' — this says 'we might possibly go home (or not)'.
✅ We gaan uiteindelijk naar huis.
We'll eventually go home.
❌ Hij was heel brave tijdens de operatie.
Incorrect — 'braaf' means obedient; you wanted courageous.
✅ Hij was heel dapper tijdens de operatie.
He was very brave during the operation.
❌ Bedankt, dat is heel sympathiek van je.
Odd — 'sympathiek' describes someone's likeable character, not a kind act.
✅ Bedankt, dat is heel aardig van je.
Thanks, that's very kind of you.
❌ Dat is een raar diersoort, je ziet ze bijna nooit.
Incorrect — 'raar' means weird, not scarce.
✅ Dat is een zeldzame diersoort, je ziet ze bijna nooit.
That's a rare species, you almost never see them.
❌ Ze is heel slim, ze past in elke spijkerbroek.
Incorrect — 'slim' means clever, not slender.
✅ Ze is heel slank, ze past in elke spijkerbroek.
She's very slim, she fits in any pair of jeans.
Key Takeaways
- eventueel = possibly (eventually = uiteindelijk); actueel = current (actually = eigenlijk).
- braaf/brave = obedient/well-behaved (brave = dapper); sympathiek = likeable (sympathetic = meelevend).
- raar = strange (rare = zeldzaam); slim = clever (slim = slank); kind = child (kind = aardig).
- bellen = to phone; huren = to rent; fabriek = factory; mug = mosquito; stout = naughty.
- For every false friend, store two words: the real Dutch meaning AND the Dutch word for the English sense you meant.
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