English has two separate verbs — borrow (getting something) and lend (giving something) — and keeps them strictly apart. Danish has one verb for both: låne. The direction of the transfer is not in the verb at all; it lives in the preposition. Get an object and you låne af ("borrow from"); give an object and you låne ud (til) ("lend (to)") or use the ditransitive låne nogen noget ("lend someone something"). Once you accept that the verb stays the same and only the preposition moves, this stops being confusing.
The core distinction in one sentence
With låne, the verb never changes — the preposition tells you the direction: af = borrow (it comes TO you), ud / til or the ditransitive = lend (it goes FROM you).
The decision test
Ask one question: Am I getting the thing, or giving it?
- Getting it (it ends up with me) → borrow → låne ... af nogen.
- Giving it (it leaves me) → lend → låne ... ud (til nogen), or the ditransitive låne nogen noget.
That is the whole decision. Notice the verb låne is identical in both rows; only the framing around it changes.
Jeg lånte en bog af Peter.
I borrowed a book from Peter. (I got it — låne af)
Jeg lånte Peter en bog.
I lent Peter a book. (I gave it — ditransitive: subject lends recipient object)
Look closely at those two sentences. The verb is lånte (past of låne) in both. What flips the meaning is the structure: en bog *af Peter (a book *from Peter → borrow) versus Peter en bog (Peter a book → lend). Same word, opposite directions.
Borrowing: låne ... af
To borrow is to take something temporarily from someone. The preposition is af ("from / off"). The pattern is låne + thing + af + person.
Må jeg låne din oplader af dig?
May I borrow your charger from you?
Hun har lånt tre bøger af biblioteket.
She's borrowed three books from the library.
Kan jeg låne din bil af dig i weekenden?
Can I borrow your car from you this weekend?
A polite, very common way to ask to borrow something is Må jeg låne ...? ("May I borrow ...?"). The af dig ("from you") is often dropped when context makes it obvious — Må jeg låne din oplader? is perfectly natural — but adding af dig is never wrong and makes the "borrow" reading explicit.
Lending: låne ... ud (til) or the ditransitive
To lend is to give something temporarily to someone. Danish offers two natural structures:
Option A — the ditransitive: låne nogen noget. Just like English "lend someone something", you put the recipient and then the thing directly after the verb, with no preposition.
Kan du låne mig hundrede kroner?
Can you lend me a hundred kroner?
Jeg lånte hende min paraply.
I lent her my umbrella.
Option B — låne ... ud (til). The particle ud ("out") makes the "lending out" direction explicit, and the recipient is introduced with til ("to"). This is especially natural when there is no recipient mentioned, or when you want to stress that the thing went out from you.
Jeg har lånt min cykel ud til en ven.
I've lent my bike out to a friend.
Vi låner gerne værktøjet ud.
We're happy to lend out the tools.
Han lånte sin lejlighed ud, mens han var i udlandet.
He lent out his flat while he was abroad.
Both options mean "lend". The ditransitive (låne mig hundrede kroner) is the everyday spoken default for small favours; låne ud (til) is favoured when the recipient is general/absent or when you want the "outgoing" emphasis.
Decision table
| Meaning | Direction | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| borrow | it comes TO me | låne (noget) af nogen | Jeg låner en bog af Peter. |
| lend | it goes FROM me | låne nogen noget (ditransitive) | Jeg låner Peter en bog. |
| lend | it goes FROM me | låne noget ud (til nogen) | Jeg låner bogen ud til Peter. |
Edge cases and gray areas
Colloquial låne mig for "lend me". In casual speech you will hear Kan du låne mig en bog? meaning "can you lend me a book?". This is the ditransitive and is widely used — but note it is structurally a lend (recipient + object, no af). The thing that makes it "lend" is the absence of af; the moment you add af dig, it flips to "borrow". This overlap is exactly where learners go wrong, so it gets its own page — see borrow-lend.
Dropping the preposition phrase. Both af dig and til X can be omitted when context is clear. Må jeg låne den? ("May I borrow it?") and Jeg låner den ud ("I'm lending it out") are both complete. The structure that remains — af vs ud/til vs ditransitive — still encodes the direction.
Reflexive-flavoured uses. Låne penge i banken ("borrow money from the bank / take out a loan") uses i with an institution rather than af with a person; this is a fixed collocation for loans. For ordinary person-to-person borrowing, stick with af.
De lånte penge i banken til huset.
They borrowed money from the bank for the house. (loan collocation with 'i')
Common Mistakes
1. Assuming there are two verbs. There is only one — låne — and the preposition does the work.
❌ Jeg vil borrowe en bog. / Jeg vil lende dig en bog.
Incorrect — there is no separate 'borrow'/'lend' verb; both are 'låne'.
✅ Jeg vil låne en bog af dig. / Jeg vil låne dig en bog.
I want to borrow a book from you. / I want to lend you a book.
2. Using til for "borrow from". Borrowing takes af, not til.
❌ Jeg lånte en bog til Peter (intended: 'from Peter').
Incorrect for 'borrow from' — 'til Peter' actually means lending TO Peter.
✅ Jeg lånte en bog af Peter.
I borrowed a book from Peter.
3. Saying låne til mig for "lend me". "Lend me" is the ditransitive låne mig, not låne til mig.
❌ Kan du låne til mig hundrede kroner?
Incorrect — drop the 'til'; the recipient comes straight after the verb.
✅ Kan du låne mig hundrede kroner?
Can you lend me a hundred kroner?
4. Mixing both directions into one ambiguous clause. Keep the structure clean: af for borrow, ud/til or ditransitive for lend.
✅ Jeg låner cyklen af min bror, og så låner jeg den ud til dig.
I'm borrowing the bike from my brother, and then I'm lending it out to you.
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