After a preposition, Catalan normally uses a strong, stressed pronoun: amb mi “with me,” per tu “for you,” sense ella “without her.” These forms behave like complete noun phrases after the preposition. They do not lean on the verb, and they are not attached with apostrophes or hyphens.
English uses object forms after prepositions (with me, not with I), but only the Catalan first-person singular visibly changes: subject jo becomes prepositional mi. The third-person reflexive si adds a distinction English expresses with himself, herself, itself, or themselves.
The basic paradigm
| person | subject form | after a preposition | example |
|---|---|---|---|
| first singular | jo | mi | amb mi |
| second singular | tu | tu | per tu |
| third singular | ell, ella | ell, ella | contra ell, sense ella |
| first plural | nosaltres | nosaltres | entre nosaltres |
| second plural | vosaltres | vosaltres | per a vosaltres |
| third plural | ells, elles | ells, elles | davant d'ells, amb elles |
| third-person reflexive | — | si | per a si mateixa |
These are strong forms because they can bear contrastive stress: No ho faig per *ell; ho faig per tu*. The preposition selects the phrase, while the pronoun identifies the person.
No vinguis amb mi si tens pressa, perquè jo aniré a poc a poc.
Don't come with me if you're in a hurry, because I'll go slowly.
Aquest paquet és per a vosaltres, no per a nosaltres.
This parcel is for you all, not for us.
The same form follows a simple or compound preposition: de mi, sense mi, davant de mi, a prop de mi. With de, the apostrophe belongs to the preposition before a vowel-initial form: d'ell, d'ella, d'ells, d'elles. The pronoun itself has not been shortened.
Replacing a full noun phrase
A strong pronoun can replace a person-denoting noun phrase while preserving the preposition:
amb la Marta → amb ella
Demà vaig al concert amb la Marta; hi vaig amb ella perquè tenim les entrades juntes.
Tomorrow I'm going to the concert with Marta; I'm going with her because our tickets are together.
The preposition amb survives because it expresses companionship. You cannot replace the phrase with bare ella after the verb: hi vaig ella is ungrammatical.
Strong phrases occur with finite and nonfinite verbs alike:
Confio en tu, però no estic d'acord amb ell.
I trust you, but I don't agree with him.
Abans de parlar amb ells, voldria revisar totes les xifres.
Before speaking with them, I would like to review all the figures.
In the second sentence, amb ells complements the infinitive parlar. It stays a separate phrase: never parlar-amb-ells. Hyphens attach certain weak pronouns to nonfinite verbs, not strong prepositional phrases.
A mi and emphasis with a weak pronoun
When a strong phrase is added for contrast or topic, Catalan often also keeps the corresponding weak pronoun next to the verb. The strong phrase answers “specifically whom?”; the weak pronoun fills the verb's ordinary object slot.
A mi m'agrada llevar-me d'hora, però a ella li agrada treballar de nit.
I like getting up early, but she likes working at night.
Here a mi and a ella are stressed topics. M' and li are the weak indirect-object pronouns required by agradar. English uses subject word order—“I like”—but Catalan literally structures the experience more like “To me, getting up early is pleasing.”
No els ho expliquis a ells; explica-m'ho a mi.
Don't explain it to them; explain it to me.
The postposed strong phrases contrast the recipients. The weak forms els and m' remain. Learning only the English word order leads learners to omit these clitics or to treat mi as the subject.
A strong personal pronoun can also occur in a focused direct-object phrase with a: M'han convidat a mi, no a ell. This limited personal a is licensed by the tonic pronoun and contrast. It does not mean that every human direct object takes a; the full boundary is covered on animate objects and the limited personal a.
Strong phrase versus en or hi
Catalan can replace many prepositional complements with the weak pronouns en or hi. The choice depends on the governing preposition and on discourse status, not simply on whether the English translation says “him” or “her.”
Parlem sovint de la directora. En parlem sobretot quan preparem el pressupost.
We often talk about the director. We talk about her especially when we prepare the budget.
Avui no vull parlar d'ella; vull parlar de tu.
Today I don't want to talk about her; I want to talk about you. (contrastive strong phrases)
In the first example, en packages the already active de-complement. In the second, d'ella and de tu are contrastive and therefore remain full stressed phrases. English uses ordinary object pronouns in both cases; Catalan distinguishes a weak anaphoric complement from an independently stressed one.
Similarly, Penso en la proposta → Hi penso uses hi, while Penso en ella, no en ell keeps strong pronouns for contrast. You cannot solve this system by deleting en or hi because English has no matching word. See en for de-complements and hi for prepositional complements.
Reflexive si
Si is a third-person reflexive strong pronoun: it refers back to the subject of its clause. It does not show gender or number, so mateix often follows and carries agreement.
| antecedent | reflexive phrase |
|---|---|
| ell | per a si mateix |
| ella | per a si mateixa |
| ells | per a si mateixos |
| elles | per a si mateixes |
La directora va reservar una còpia de l'informe per a si mateixa.
The director kept a copy of the report for herself.
Compare per a ella: that normally points to some contextually identified woman and does not force her to be the subject. La directora va reservar una còpia per a ella can therefore mean that the director reserved it for another woman. Si mateixa removes that ambiguity.
In (formal, academic) prose, entre si is common for reciprocal relations among things or members of a set:
Les tres variables estan relacionades entre si, però no depenen directament l'una de l'altra.
The three variables are related to one another, but they do not depend directly on one another. (academic)
With people in ordinary speech, entre ells/elles is often more natural: Els veïns ho van decidir entre ells. There is genuine overlap here; entre si is not wrong, but it can sound more abstract.
Si is only third person. For first and second person, use the ordinary strong forms: Ho guardo per a mi; ho fas per a tu; ho preparem per a nosaltres.
The special coordination entre tu i jo
The standard expression is entre tu i jo, with subject-form jo, when coordinated pronouns name the participants together. This is a genuine exception to the usual preposition + mi pattern and must be learned as a unit.
Entre tu i jo, aquesta proposta no funcionarà sense més diners.
Between you and me, this proposal won't work without more money.
The same subject form appears in broader coordination where the whole coordinated phrase follows the preposition: Ho repartiran entre la Núria, tu i jo. Do not “correct” it mechanically to entre tu i mi in the standard model taught here.
Regional use of jo after prepositions
(regional: Balearic, Northern, and some Northwestern speech; informal) jo may appear where the general standard uses mi: amb jo, per jo, de jo. These are genuine dialect forms, not random mistakes. The broad interregional and formal model remains amb mi, per mi, de mi.
Vols venir amb jo fins a sa plaça?
Do you want to come with me as far as the square? (Balearic, informal)
Do not mix the dialectal form casually into a Central-standard sentence. Conversely, recognizing amb jo matters when listening to Balearic or Northern speakers. Pronunciation can also reduce the final consonant of amb in speech, but standard spelling remains amb mi, amb tu, amb ella.
Common Mistakes
1. Using subject jo after a preposition in the Central baseline.
❌ Aquest cafè és per jo.
Incorrect in the Central/general formal model — use mi after the preposition.
✅ Aquest cafè és per a mi.
This coffee is for me.
2. Copying Spanish conmigo as a fused form.
❌ Vols venir conmigo?
Incorrect Spanish transfer — Catalan uses the two-word phrase amb mi.
✅ Vols venir amb mi?
Do you want to come with me?
3. Omitting the weak pronoun in an emphatic doubled structure.
❌ A mi agrada molt aquesta música.
Incorrect — agradar requires the weak dative m' as well as emphatic a mi.
✅ A mi m'agrada molt aquesta música.
I really like this music.
4. Using si for first or second person.
❌ He guardat l'últim tros per a si.
Incorrect if the speaker means ‘for myself’ — si is third-person reflexive.
✅ He guardat l'últim tros per a mi.
I've saved the last piece for myself.
5. Attaching a strong phrase to an infinitive.
❌ Abans de parlar-amb-ells, revisa les xifres.
Incorrect — amb ells is an independent prepositional phrase, not a clitic cluster.
✅ Abans de parlar amb ells, revisa les xifres.
Before speaking with them, review the figures.
Key Takeaways
Use mi after a preposition where the subject form would be jo; the other ordinary person forms remain tu, ell, ella, nosaltres, vosaltres, ells, and elles. Keep the preposition, write the phrase separately, and use si mateix/a/os/es for an unambiguous third-person reflexive. Learn the real exception entre tu i jo, and recognize regional (informal) amb jo without importing it into a Central-standard model.
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