Hebrew commonly describes sensations, reactions, and evaluations with an impersonal predicate plus a ל־marked experiencer: קר לי literally organizes “cold is to me,” where English says “I am cold.” The predicate normally stays in its default masculine-singular shape inside this construction, while לי, לך, לו, לה, לנו, לכם/לכן, or להם/להן identifies the person who feels or evaluates the situation.
קשה לי להתרכז כשמדברים לידי.
kashé li lehitrakéz kshemedabrím leyadí
I find it hard to concentrate when people talk next to me.
כיף לנו לשבת כאן כשהשמש יורדת.
kef lánu lashévet kan kshehashémesh yorédet
We enjoy sitting here when the sun goes down.
The experiencer is marked with ל־
The key grammar is not a word-for-word translation but a role distinction. The person who experiences the state is not treated as an ordinary nominative subject. Instead, a cliticized form of ל־ marks that person as the experiencer.
| Experiencer | Dative form | Model |
|---|---|---|
| me | לִי li | קַר לִי kar li — I feel cold. |
| you (m. sg.) | לְךָ lekhá | נוֹחַ לְךָ nóakh lekhá — Are you comfortable? |
| you (f. sg.) | לָךְ lakh | קַל לָךְ kal lakh — It is easy for you. |
| him / her | לוֹ / לָהּ lo / la | נָעִים לוֹ; קָשֶׁה לָהּ — It is pleasant for him; it is hard for her. |
| us | לָנוּ lánu | כֵּיף לָנוּ kef lánu — We are having fun. |
| you (pl.) | לָכֶם / לָכֶן lakhém / lakhén | חַם לָכֶם — You feel hot. (m./mixed) |
| them | לָהֶם / לָהֶן lahém / lahén | מְשַׁעֲמֵם לָהֶן — They are bored. (f.) |
נעים לה במשרד החדש, והצוות כבר מכיר אותה.
na'ím la bamisrád hekhadásh, vehatsévet kvar makír otá
She feels comfortable in the new office, and the team already knows her.
אכפת לי מה יקרה לאנשים שגרים באזור.
ikhpát li ma yikré la'anashím shegarím ba'ezór
I care what will happen to the people who live in the area.
English speakers tend to promote the experiencer into “I am…” because English requires a subject in this sentence type. Hebrew instead foregrounds the state and attaches the experiencer with ל־. This is not an omitted pronoun: adding אני before קר לי can contrast the experiencer—אני, קר לי “me, I’m cold”—but it does not replace לי.
Ten high-frequency frames
These expressions share the dative-experiencer design, but they are not all the same part of speech historically or morphologically. Learn each one with its usual complement.
| Frame | Core meaning | Typical continuation |
|---|---|---|
| כֵּיף לִי kef li | I am having fun / enjoying myself | כֵּיף לִי כָּאן — I am enjoying it here. |
| נָעִים לִי na'ím li | I find it pleasant / comfortable | נָעִים לִי לְדַבֵּר אִיתָּהּ — I feel comfortable talking with her. |
| חֲבָל לִי khavál li | I regret / feel sorry about | חֲבָל לִי עַל הַזְּמַן — I regret the time. |
| קָשֶׁה לִי kashé li | I find it difficult | קָשֶׁה לִי לְהַחְלִיט — It is hard for me to decide. |
| קַל לִי kal li | I find it easy | קַל לִי לִזְכּוֹר — It is easy for me to remember. |
| נִמְאַס לִי nim'ás li | I am fed up / have had enough | נִמְאַס לִי מֵהַוִּיכּוּחַ — I am fed up with the argument. |
| אִכְפַּת לִי ikhpát li | I care | אִכְפַּת לִי מִמֶּנָּה — I care about her. |
| מְשַׁעֲמֵם לִי mesha'amém li | I am bored | מְשַׁעֲמֵם לִי בַּתּוֹר — I am bored in the queue. |
| חַם לִי kham li | I feel hot | חַם לִי עִם הַמְּעִיל — I feel hot with the coat on. |
| קַר לִי kar li | I feel cold | קַר לִי לְיַד הַחַלּוֹן — I feel cold by the window. |
כיף is noun-like, קשה/קל/נעים are adjectives in other environments, משעמם is a participial form, and נמאס is morphologically a nif'al verb. The shared syntax is real, but calling every item an “invariant adjective” would erase important differences learners later need.
Modal כדאי participates in the same syntax even though it evaluates advice rather than an experienced sensation: כדאי לי + infinitive means that an action is advisable for me. Its form does not change with the dative person.
כדאי לי להתקשר למרפאה לפני שאני יוצא מהבית.
kedái li lehitkashér lamirpa'á lifnéi she'aní yotsé mehabáyit
I should call the clinic before I leave home. (m. speaker)
Three complement shapes
No expressed complement
The predicate and dative can form a complete utterance. The surrounding situation supplies what causes the feeling.
תפתחי בבקשה את החלון, חם לי.
tiftekhí bevakashá et hakhalón, kham li
Please open the window; I feel hot. (request to a woman)
רוצים ללכת? משעמם לנו פה.
rotsím lalékhet? mesha'amém lánu po
Shall we go? We're bored here. (mixed or all-male group)
An infinitive names the experience or task
קשה לי לקום, קל לה להבין, נעים לנו לשמוע, and כיף להם לעבוד all evaluate an activity. The infinitive does not agree with the experiencer.
קל לי יותר להבין כשאני רואה דוגמה אמיתית.
kal li yotér lehavín kshe'aní ro'é dugmá amitít
I find it easier to understand when I see a real example. (m. speaker)
נעים לנו לשמוע שהבדיקה עברה בשלום.
na'ím lánu lishmóa shehabdiká avrá beshalóm
We are glad to hear that the test went well.
A clause or prepositional phrase names the cause
ש־clauses are natural after reactions such as אכפת לי and חבל לי. Other predicates select a preposition: נמאס לי מ־, אכפת לי מ־, and חבל לי על־. There is no universal complement rule; the lexical pairing must be learned.
חבל לי שלא הספקנו להיפרד לפני שעברת דירה.
khavál li sheló hispáknu lehiparéd lifnéi she'avárta dirá
I'm sorry we didn't manage to say goodbye before you moved. (to a man)
נמאס לה מההבטחות האלה; היא רוצה תשובה ברורה.
nim'ás la mehahavtakhót ha'éle; hi rotsá tshuvá brurá
She is fed up with these promises; she wants a clear answer.
אכפת להם שהילדים חוזרים לבד בחושך.
ikhpát lahém shehayeladím khozrím levád bakhóshekh
They care that the children are coming home alone in the dark.
Default masculine singular inside, agreement outside
Inside the experiencer construction, the predicate normally remains masculine singular regardless of the experiencer: קשה לה, קשה להם, קר לנו, משעמם להן. But many of the same forms are ordinary agreeing adjectives or participles when they directly describe a noun.
העבודה קשה, אבל לי לא קשה לבקש עזרה.
ha'avodá kashá, avál li lo kashé levakésh ezrá
The work is difficult, but I don't find it hard to ask for help.
ההרצאה משעממת, ולכן משעמם לסטודנטים.
hahartsa'á mesha'amémet, velakhén mesha'amém lastudéntim
The lecture is boring, so the students are bored.
The first predicate in each example agrees with העבודה or ההרצאה. The second is the default predicate of an experiencer frame. This is why the safe rule is not “קשה is always frozen,” but “קשה is default masculine singular when the experiencer is marked with ל־.”
Past and future
Most nonverbal experiencer frames use default היה and יהיה: היה לי קר “I was cold,” יהיה לנו קשה “it will be hard for us.” The dative still does not control agreement. Full tense contrasts appear on modals in the past and future.
יהיה לנו נעים יותר בחוץ אחרי שהרוח תירגע.
yihyé lánu na'ím yotér bakhúts akharéi sheharúakh teragá
It will be more pleasant for us outside after the wind dies down.
נמאס requires special care because it is already a finite nif'al verb, not a tenseless adjective. Its common present-state use looks like the other frames—נמאס לי “I am fed up”—but it also has its own future יימאס לי “I will get fed up.” This lexical irregularity is a fact to learn, not something the general default-frame rule can predict.
אם נמשיך לחכות בלי תשובה, בקרוב יימאס לכולם.
im namshíkh lekhakót bli tshuvá, bekaróv yima'és lekulám
If we keep waiting without an answer, everyone will soon get fed up.
Common Mistakes
1. Translating “I feel cold” as אני קר. אני קר is grammatical for a masculine speaker when קר describes him as cold to the touch or, figuratively, emotionally cold; it does not normally encode the bodily sensation intended here.
❌ אני קר ליד החלון; אפשר להחליף מקום?
I feel cold by the window; can I change seats?
Incorrect for the intended sensation—use קר לי. אני קר describes the speaker as cold.
✅ קר לי ליד החלון; אפשר להחליף מקום?
kar li leyád hakhalón; efshár lehakhlíf makóm
I feel cold by the window; can I change seats?
2. Confusing “I am bored” with “I am boring.” אני משעמם is a valid masculine sentence meaning that the speaker bores other people. The experiencer meaning needs לי, or the agreeing adjective משועמם.
❌ אני משעמם בשיעור הזה
I am bored in this class
Incorrect for the intended meaning—אני משעמם means ‘I am boring.’
✅ משעמם לי בשיעור הזה, כי כבר למדתי את החומר.
mesha'amém li bashi'úr hazé, ki kvar lamádti et hakhómer
I'm bored in this class because I've already learned the material.
3. Using a bare pronoun where Hebrew requires a dative experiencer. The predicate stays default נעים and the woman is marked by לה.
❌ היא נעים פה ליד הים
Incorrect—the experiencer cannot be a bare subject of impersonal נעים.
✅ נעים לה פה ליד הים, והיא לא רוצה לחזור למלון.
na'ím la po leyád hayám, vehi lo rotsá lakhzór lamalón
She finds it pleasant here by the sea, and she doesn't want to return to the hotel.
4. Keeping the adjective frozen when it directly describes a noun. Outside the experiencer frame, ordinary agreement returns.
❌ המים קר, אל תיכנסו עדיין
Incorrect—קר directly describes plural המים, so use קרים.
✅ המים קרים, אל תיכנסו עדיין.
hamáyim karím, al tikánsu adáyin
The water is cold; don't go in yet. (to a group)
Key Takeaways
- Experiencer predicates put the feeling or evaluation first and mark the person with ל־: קר לי, קשה לה, כיף לנו.
- Inside this frame, the predicate normally stays masculine singular even with feminine or plural experiencers.
- The same words may agree elsewhere: העבודה קשה, ההרצאה משעממת, המים קרים.
- Complements differ by lexical item: an infinitive, a ש־clause, or selected prepositions such as נמאס מ־ and חבל על־.
- The construction unites different lexical classes. In particular, נמאס is a nif'al verb with its own future יימאס, not simply another frozen adjective.
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